Some people have told me that my husband might have been right to suggest my blog's name be, "Jeanette's Fantasy World". Well, I'm not just another well intended blogger, dear sister. Here's the deal. I don't plan to update my blog daily, or even weekly. Only when I have time and desire. Anyway, that is the excuse I am offering. That, and, "I've been too busy to write much" which is usually true for everyone when it gets to December, probably. However, this holiday season has been unusually frantic for me. I mean, you should see the status of my purse! That's always a good indicator of how fast my busy hamster brain is running on it's little wheel. The little guy has to be soaked in sweat by now.
Hmmm...that's kind of a crazy little image. Soaking wet hamster, panting, and running for it's life on a little wheel...inside my head...
Anyway, I'm sure my three readers are just dying to know why my poor hamster brain is so crazy active. Let me enlighten you, dear readers!
Since my first blog entry, we've celebrated Thanksgiving by preparing a delicious meal, including a record 9 pies (including the three delicious winners my talented girls made. Rebecca made banana cream, Emily made a pecan pie, and Madeline made the award winner, chocolate ganache pie!). We also enjoyed our annual rotisserie turkey, along with a ham this time, and mashed potatoes, sweet potatoes rolls, stuffing, cranberry sauce, green beans, etc. It was all so delicious and we had great company! Even though we had a couple friends who couldn't make it, we welcomed other guests we weren't originally expecting, so it all worked out and there was PLENTY of food.
Sadly my favorite holiday came and went so fast it gave me whiplash. Well, truth be told, I haven't actually felt the pain of whiplash yet, because my head just keeps spinning. On Dasher, on Prancer! On Donnor and Blitzen! On Comet and Cupid, and Frosty and Rudolph!
Yes, the Nelson's hit the ground running with the Christmas preparations. This is something I usually avoid every year since I like to have a few days to simply enjoy my Thanksgiving food, I mean blessings, before I head into the consumer driven Christmas festivities. However, this year we put up our Christmas decorations in record time, including the tree, which we've decorated at least 9 times by now, thanks to our darling kitten Wembley. Yes, we've put the lights up outside, done all the Christmas shopping and wrapping, hung the stockings by the chimney with care in hopes that St. Nick would soon be here...and what do you know? He came already! We're THAT GOOD. :)
Yes, the Nelson's had an early Christmas! We enjoyed opening all our gifts to each other on the 16th this year, due to Jared's deployment to Kuwait, which is fast approaching- coming up here in 36 hours. The gifts were especially thoughtful this year with that in mind. In fact, I think one of the favorites was a video Madeline created for her Daddy that featured all of us in it. Each one of us took a turn sharing why we loved Jared and what we will miss most about him. Tanner wasn't featured, of course, because he's still serving a mission. But Lisa, my sister in law, who lives with us now, was and I loved hearing what she had to say about her wonderful brother. Everybody had such thoughtful responses and then Madeline added some music and pictures of all of us, including some of her brother's missionary pics. It was so well done and made us all emotional. I'm a bawl baby anyway.
I'm so grateful that my girls are learning what real gift giving is like. They really went out of their way to consider their family member's individual needs and desires. They made hats, scarves, videos, pajama pants, picture frames, etc. It was the best part of Christmas, seeing what my girls made for each other. Then they presented a song that they dedicated to Daddy that they'd been practicing for awhile. Madeline played the guitar, Emily played the piano, and Rebecca sang. Of course, Emily and Madeline sang the chorus with her. It was beautiful! They covered a great song. I think it's called 3000 miles.
Santa brought us movie tickets so we could go see our annual Christmas movie too. This year we saw Frozen, which is a super cute movie, by the way. We pulled the kids out of school, of course, for our Christmas celebration, because that had to be part of the deal. I thought I detected a curious look on the face of the woman who sold us our movie ticket that afternoon. However, I was wrong. When I told her we were celebrating Christmas early due to hubby's deployment, she didn't even look up. In fact, it looked like she could care less. I think she even yawned! Apparently, we aren't the only people dragging our kids out of school to see a movie and she's heard all the excuses. I found that mildly amusing.
Tanner will skype with us tomorrow for awhile and we are looking forward to that, but it's bitter sweet to anticipate his call this Christmas, knowing after we hang up with him, we're taking Jared to Baltimore to get on the rotater to Kuwait. We will be without any priesthood in our home for the first time since 2005. That's a big bummer...especially since I love them so very much.
Anyway, I promised to keep my blog uplifting. So here's the good news. It's not a year and it's not Afghanistan. We can thank the Lord for those two things! We've been very fortunate to have gotten away with only two short deployments thus far (5 months and 7 months), and both to safe locations. I've known many others who've felt worried constantly for the safety and security of their spouses in war torn areas. I feel exceedingly lucky to be spared that concern, for the most part. Of course, one always worries when someone leaves for so long and they are so far away, but by in large, safety will not be an issue where Jared is going.
Well, this has taken all morning to compose, so I'm off now. To my whole family and all my friends, I wish a peace filled, wonder filled, love filled Holiday Season. May your days be merry and bright.
Merry Christmas!
Jeanette
Hi my Sister!
ReplyDeleteI loved your blog post! Thank you for sharing. Funny, just last night I checked to see if you had a new blog and NOPE, so I admit, another "Jeanette's fantasy world" thought flashed through my mind and then *poof* today there was a fresh, new bloggy blog! Honestly, I think you have the right idea to just post a blog whenever you feel like it. No pressure, and it will be more fun that way. Besides, even if it had been well intended but a new blog was never posted, it was still fun, right? I certainly have several "Julie's fantasy world" projects out there.
Your blog is so witty and amusing. I love the way that you write!
What a great message about your family's Christmas. It sounds like the girls really did a wonderful job in creating thoughtful gifts for everyone. That is really special and it must have made you proud to see them celebrating in such a thoughtful way. Also, I hope someday to be the lucky recipient of a piece of Maddie's chocolate ganache pie! YUM!!!!
I am so glad that you posted your blog today because it reminded me of Jared's deployment. I didn't realize it was coming right up, so I was able to call him and talk with him for a little while today. It was so great to talk to him. I just miss and love him so much. I am sad to hear that your family will have to be apart for the next 7+ months. I know it is going to be so hard for all of you.
I know that is hard to imagine, and Jared wouldn't choose this route if it was up to him, but I look forward to talking with him after he gets back, when he can truly have a grasp on what he gained from the experience, because although it is hard to imagine now, the experience will make him stronger and wiser in the end.
Btw, whats with that employee at the movie who didn't acknowledge you and maybe even yawned when you said your husband was being deployed? WTH? SHEESH! Where's the compassion? Where's the gratitude? Some people!
Thank you for sharing this wonderful blog. It was truly a wonderful way to wake up this morning and it made my day. Merry Christmas, and I love you soooo much! I can't wait until our February trip together!
Love,
Bools
Thank you, Bools! I love you! You really made Jared's day, calling. I will have Madeline send you a link to her video. She has it set on private so I can't share it.
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